Matthew 28:19. Go therefore and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit,
I can remember a time when disciple-making sounded more doable. My days had more margin for late nights, spontaneous meals, and extended fellowship. Fewer responsibilities demanded my time. Discipling others in a life-on-life way didn’t sound easy, but it did sound more manageable than it does now.
Businessman, husband, mother of young ones — you probably know what I mean. You used to say yes to nearly every invitation. You used to send those invitations. Now saying yes often means saying no to some part of life that seems nonnegotiable. And for as much as you’ve tried to invite others into your normal routines — aiming for overlap, not addition — the fact still stands: Discipling others is harder than it once was.
Yet you still hear your Lord’s command: “Make disciples of all nations” (Matthew 28:19). Evangelize and baptize. Teach and train. Invest your life in others so they grow up into Christlike maturity.
“Yes, Lord,” you say from the heart. But as you look up from your overtime schedule, overdue projects, or overloaded sink, you add, “But how?”
Go and Make When?
Of course, something would be wrong if we heard Jesus’s command to make disciples and thought, Simple. I can make disciples in my sleep. The command should make us stagger a step or two.
Indeed, not only discipleship but also disciple-making comes with a cost. We reckon rightly with Jesus’s command when we start rearranging life to more regularly welcome the unbelieving and less mature. What hobbies might we give up? What lesser priorities might go? In what creative ways might we take others alongside us and teach them to observe more of what Jesus commanded?
But as we feel the weight of the task, we should also beware of adding more weight than what’s there. “Go and make disciples” does not require us to neglect job or family. In fact, the same Jesus who told us to make disciples also told us, through his apostles, to work and parent heartily (Colossians 3:18–4:1). So, those who shortchange family or employer in order to make disciples do so at the expense of their own discipleship. And a disobedient disciple-maker is a walking contradiction.
Somehow, then, we need a vision of life-on-life discipleship for lives with little room. (Hubbard)